Why would Moi who writes mostly about politics venture into the sexual side of life it goes with politics and pops up in everyday circumstances.
I was helping an acquaintance do some paperwork and had been using his phone.. A call came in and I asked did he want to take it...Who is it...It's so and so....No she's calling for phone sex and preceded to tell me how he met her....had do with she does stained glass and he had a piece that he had advertised and she answered the ad.
Bottom line he says it was years ago and they have been doing phone sex off and on since..I asked him to come on Hair on Fire by Barbara as a guest.. He refused..Said I have been doing phone sex with that person and it's not working out...but apparently it's continuing..why else would she be calling? Later I discovered by accident he likes porn and taking photos of nude women....
This got me to thinking why would a nice looking intelligent man would continue to have phone sex with a person he never had sex with in person the old fashion way. Or want to take pictures of nude women? And the chase was on.....My quest started.
I have been to sex shops, visited sex web sites, chat rooms, interviewed Doctors, Nurses, Psychologists, heterosexuals and homosexuals.
I have came across some very interesting information. Which led me to the sex for money side....In the 70's there was guy known as the King of Porn he controlled adult bookstores, X-rated movie theaters and peep show machines. His Atlanta based $100 million-a-year empire was known as "the GM of pornography." Where is he now? In prison, while serving 81/2 years in jail for arson he escaped and became a fugitive. He was later arrested trying to withdraw $33,500 from a bank where the manager got suspicious and called the police. After hours of questioning they placed an FBI wanted poster in front of him..his response you got me.
Other evidence then began to pile up, he was convicted of killing four people found in the trunk of his car. He is now serving time in a maximum security prison.
His motive..getting rid of his competition...My Co-Producer has been dealing with the prison authorities for us to get an interview.. Stay listening to see if we can swing it.
NEXT HOW BIG is PORN TODAY?
According to Forbes in 2001
Adult video $1.8 Billion
Internet $1. Billion
Pay-per-view $ 128 Million
Magazines $ 1 Billion
The business of smut: What it was worth today worldwide?
Take your 2001 numbers then add in adult dating sites. Where you can join for free and according to your "Choices" it is from $9.95 to $50.00 a month throw in phone sex from $ 4.00 to the sky's the limit per minute, escort services day or all night, massage parlors with regular massage to hand finish...my estimate would be between $ 300,000 to $ 500,000 Billion a year. The up side you can pay with a credit card.
UN-F*^#ing Believable what I have found on the Internet. I'm having a hard time even putting into words the sites I have found. If you can think of it there is a web site for it. From swinging from the chandelier with your thingy to sex with a snake if that's your thing. A few of the titles....About.Com..Sex, Art and Politics.....Naked Sex....Swingers, Free Sex, Chat....Horny Matches....Adult Friend Finder...Craig's List... A local free pick-up paper at newsstands has an Internet site that breaks it down under entertainment and geographical area.
My visit to the battery operated sex castle was even more of an eye opener. The BOBF comes in all shapes colors and sizes for both men and women. They have penis lamps ( I can't imagine for the life of me how that would ever go with any one's decor).....Cake Pans in the shape of intimate body parts.......ice cube trays.....blow up dolls....whips, chains....all kinds of bondage stuff and the piece DE resistance..Flavored EDIBLE UNDERWEAR from bikini panties, bras to men's shorts.
Who's the consumer? Everyone, all ages, sexual preference, races and religions. Your first reaction it has to be perverts and weirdo's..... Wrong it's your next door neighbor. Chat rooms are filled with men and women from around the world having a chin wag telling each other their most intimate thoughts. In some cases baring all via web cam within nano seconds. {Tried that, didn't work for me}.
My burning question was still why???
From the interviews and medical/mental standpoint is that a person who prefers to have sex without a partner is narcissistic and only interested in pleasing themselves.
They are incapable of loving anyone or allowing another to share their space. That's not the medical terms but most of those I can't spell or pronounce. A. Narcissism "self-love; excessive interest in one's own appearance, comfort, importance, abilities, in psychoanalysis, arrest at or regression to the first stage of sexual development, in which the self is an object of sexual pleasure". For this Texas gal I have relied on Webster and the interviewees to answer my burning question of WHY?
As one person told me you can be anybody you want to be, describe yourself in the most glowing terms, be rude, talk nasty, insult the person and you don't have to face them the next day. My Texas terminology would say they don't clean up good enough to go out or can't get it up, so playing with themselves is the next best thing to being there, if doesn't work no one need know.
I have learned one thing about self in this quest for an answer, I've been to a hog calling, a rodeo, a calf roping, a picnic on the ground, nudist community, skinny dipped, walk around nude, but when it comes to sex none of the above "blew up my skirt", "tickled my peach" or turned me on. I still prefer it to be between two people that care about each other. When making Love approach it with reckless abandon, spice enhances cooking and a little spice with a special person who has touched your body and soul with passion, desire and love is the best way to have sex.” be
